I think public discussion of places that don't do the visual check isn't good for those places. If you saw someone mention a place try to contact them personally.
Yes, I agree. At the very minimum, keep it in the Supporting Members Lounge. If you're not a member, then now's a good time to become one.
are they just looking for the cat in the DP? Highflow cats are ok? that said I know of a place that should not give you problems.