Alright, so I'm just going to lay out this scenario for everyone, and I'm just curious what your opinions are. Last night I went out with a group of friends. I talked to this girl at the bar for 5 minutes or so (nice little conversation). I was feeling good, and decided on the way out that I was going to slip her my phone number. I went up to her and her friends, told her to have a wonderful night and then gave her the number. Is this weird at all? Haha, I don't really care at all if it is. I did it at the time because I was brimming with liquid confidence, and the girl was a UGA student who I more than likely would never see again anyways. The girls and guys I went out with were kind of torn on the situation. Some thought it was pretty gay, some thought it was funny, and a couple of the girls thought it was actually pretty smooth. So what do my suby friends think? Once again, I could careless (I honestly don't ever expect to hear from her). I just thought this might be a good conversation piece.
I definitely think giving her your number instead of trying to get hers was a good move. You obviously saw something that you really liked in her in those five minutes. Also you apparently didn't really say anything that could be construed as 'creepy.' You just wished her a wonderful night and gave her the option to get to know you better. As long as her boobs were left out of the conversation you're probably fine. Hell, this is how I met my girlfriend of about a year and a half. I gave her my number and offered to take her out for coffee. Good luck dude. I hope she calls.
Haha, yeah boobs were left out of the conversation. The only thing bad (which isn't obvious to her) is that I definitely don't remember her name :slap:. Haha, I'm horrible at meeting new people and immediately forgetting their name. But I also figure that if she were to call, she'd start by saying, "hey this is so and so from the bar last night." And if not, I could always have a fun Seinfeld-esque experience.
nothing weird about giving a girl your number...they actually prefer that to giving you their number most of the time
Haha, yeah, I think one of my friends from back home that was hanging out last night rubbed off on me a little bit. He's been in a relationship for the last few years (and don't get me wrong, he's happy), but he was just saying how he envies my potential life style. I mean, I'm a 22 year old guy with a pretty fantastic bachpad in the middle of the city. I have at least 3 decent bars in walking distance from me (and the cheetah :hsugh, and while I'm by no means deprived of the ladies, I could be doing a lot better for myself. And why not go out on a limb...honestly.
and not mention the car.. = ) I think it was good that you gave the girl your number and if she calls she calls..and if not...then you can go spend butt loads of money at the cheetah for horrible, no energy, unsatisfying entertainment =)...
it will be a nice move if she actually gives you a call and you hook up with her again. till then ... you didnt really do anything. who "reads" maxim anyways??? LOL i just watch the pics.
from what ive seen/heard, girls are less likely to call a guy they dont know then the other way around...
if you make a good strong impression on a woman they will call you. or if you drive a car thats worth more than all their family assets. money talks. err calls