congrats king, many happy years to you both. a couple rules of thumb for both of you, if i may: -talk early, talk often -be yourselves, no bullshit -money matters, get on the same page early -sex is not a bargaining chip -things are going to be great, enjoy it -things are going to totally suck, help each other -moderation and compromise, adapt and overcome side note: going to bed angry is not necessarily a bad thing. "sleeping on it" sometimes helps you/her decide if it was a genuine problem between you or misdirected frustration. most women know this rule and use it at least once a month. just don't let "sleeping on it" become an excuse for not "talking about it".